After reading Sherry Turkle’s Alone Together, I must admit that I am worried just how much we
depend on technology and even more so what we depend on it for. The readings we’ve had for this class up until this point have
generally been based around the idea of using technology to make everyday tasks
easier, promote democracy, and alter the way we think. However, Alone Together brings up the way some
people utilize technology as their own personal companion, in more ways than
one.
In the “Author’s Note: Turning Points”, the claim that we as
individuals “fear the risks and disappointments of relationships with our
fellow humans” and so “expect more from technology and less from each other”
really caught my attention because when I usually think about technology I typically
think about how it connects us and essentially brings us together. This
statement, however, raises the point that now more than ever we protect
ourselves from hardship and pain through technology. For example, in the “Introduction”
section of this reading, the author talks about how the Zhu Zhu toy pet
hamsters are “presented as ‘better’ than any real pet could be” because they
are “loveable and responsive, don’t require cleanup, and will never die” (pg.
1). It bothers me that we are replacing the animate with inanimate objects in
order to avoid things we have no control over, such as death. Moreover, some
people would prefer interacting with a robot rather than a human in order to
avoid things like cheating husbands and children who take drugs (pg. 10). It is
evident we are turning to technology to avoid fear and pain, but I think that
dealing with hardship builds character and is how we grow as a person; it makes
me sad that we are too scared to experience struggle and will do anything to
completely avoid things that are just a part of life to the point of having a
robot as a best friend or companion.
The author states that we put so much hope in robots and
technology because we have “technological optimism”, which is the belief that
as other things go wrong in life, science will go right (pg.11). I found this
interesting because in so many of the readings we’ve done in class, such as Digital Disconnect, include rather long
lists of negativity that has emerged from technology. I think that people either
underestimate or don’t realize the trouble of the unintended consequences which
result from technology; today’s day in age is so wrapped up in innovation and
how to make things faster, easier, and more realistic that we as a whole do not
see the big picture of how it can ultimately affect us in something other than
a positive manner.
I think I’ve made it pretty clear that I am not a big fan of
human-robot relationships of any kind, whether that’d be as a companion, pet,
or lover as Sherry Turkle discusses in Alone
Together. I believe that as we limit face to face and overall human contact
with each other, we are cheating ourselves of being able to grow as a person
and appreciate the real, natural things life has to offer. Yes, in a perfect
world people and pets wouldn’t die, your boyfriend or girlfriend wouldn’t break
up with you, and you’d never fight with your parents. But we don’t live in a
perfect world. I think we are trying to create a perfect world through
technology and unfortunately believe it will never happen. What do you think?
I liked your post Tori! I agree with you, I don't particularly like the human-robot relationships described in the reading either. The section about the Furbies really freaked me out. I immediately was reminded of when my sister and I got Furbies when we were little. Our interest didn't last long. The Furbies got very annoying and it got so bad we would hide them under our couch so they'd think they were sleeping and we didn't have to take care of them. Eventually I think my mom took out their batteries so we didn't have to deal with them. I don't think my sister and I realized what we were engaging in, but looking back I wish I didn't care so much about a furry robot. Luckily our obsession didn't last long. I think children, especially children today, need to rely less on technology recreationally and go back to the days when making up games with your friends and playing with Barbies was the norm.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with you...whenever I go to visit my little cousins they're constantly playing with some sort of technology toy. Although yes, today this seems to be more a part of the social norm, I'm on your side and think maybe they'd be better off with barbies or other non-technological toys.
DeleteI definitely agree with your post, Tori. I found this section to be rather odd and interesting. While I think it is amazing that technology has come this far, I do think that we are trying to hide behind science so that we do not have to face the hardships of life. The part about the robots really freaked me out. I never knew that there were actually people out there who wanted to marry and/or fall in love with a robot. I especially couldn't believe that one of the men Sherry Turkle brought up in the text thought she was similar to the people who do not support gay marriage because she does not support humans marrying robots. Humans want to create robots so they do not have to face the rejections that come from going on dates, being in relationships, or ending a relationship with their significant other. They want to take the easy way out so they can just find their "perfect" match rather than actually go through the hardships of finding love. This section shows that humans have not only become lazy, but more afraid of life. Science is now supposed to protect us from things that I never knew it would ever be able to.
ReplyDeleteI was also taken aback at the part about comparing not supporting gay marriage with not supporting humans marrying robots. I think they are clearly on completely different playing fields. Thanks for your comment!
DeleteOnce again, great post Tori. The same section regarding the robot pets caught my attention. I remember when I was a youngster and when technology was not as dominant as it is now, my parents would buy me such toys. I hated them. Now that I am reading about this years later, I can understand why I hated them because I practically had no sense of technology. It does scare me that children now are enjoying their fake pets. Now that I do understand technology, I still see the toys as bogus because of how I grew up. It is disappointing to see how children's play time has evolved so much. Technology has already taken over this aspect of a child's growth so there is no point in me saying that I wish and hope for this to change. Knowing a 4 year old with an iPad is enough satisfaction for me to realize that.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment! It also scares me that so many children are using these types of technological toys and liking them. Although it changes the way we think, I still think children will be better off with the simple things of life instead of complicated technology.
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